Is the Narcissist Looking for Connection or Service?

Narcissists attach but they do not connect because they cannot bond. The connection you feel with a narcissist is with yourself; your strong desire to be loved and have the inspirational love you thought you were getting in the beginning.  My clients often talk about their so-called connection with the narcissist. They argue, “Oh we …

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The Narcissism/Co-Dependent Theory – The Answer to Understanding Narcissists?

I always ask my clients if they can determine which parent, if they had two parents, was the me-focused parent (narcissist) and which parent was the others-focused parent (the giver or co-dependent). If you find yourself feeling stuck with a true narcissist, you were likely raised with narcissism in some way.   Some practitioners will …

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