Gaslighting is a very abusive practice that makes someone distrustful and makes them believe that they are mentally ill. It’s not easy to get rid of the effects of gaslighting; here are a few of the impact. What Happens to You Over Time When You are Gaslighted You find you are apologizing often and you …
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POPULAR COLLOQUIALISMS/IDIOMS IN THE NARCISSISTIC LEXICON TO DECRIBE NARCISSISTIC ABUSE Newer word combinations and phrases have entered the lexicon of narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), in order to casually communicate and describe certain narcissistic abusive behaviors and feelings the abuses create, like the two combined words — gas and lighting for gaslighting. We find these newer …
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Traumatic bonding is a relationship where one person is exercising and abusing their partner. These people often claim that they are doing everything for love or the sake of their partner.
Narcissists attach but they do not connect because they cannot bond. The connection you feel with a narcissist is with yourself; your strong desire to be loved and have the inspirational love you thought you were getting in the beginning. My clients often talk about their so-called connection with the narcissist. They argue, “Oh we …
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7 Ways to Survive a Narcissist Learn to say NO – Narcissists hate no. They will throw it around endlessly but you better not. Say no to being dragged in to defending yourself over and over. No more defending about anything. Walk away. Re-write your life story. Whether your story is recent or life-long, if …
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7 Ways to Survive a Narcissist Learn to say NO – Narcissists hate no. They will throw it around endlessly but you better not. Say no to be dragged in to defending yourself over and over. No more defending about anything. Walk away. Re-write your life story. Whether your story is recent or life-long, if …
I always ask my clients if they can determine which parent, if they had two parents, was the me-focused parent (narcissist) and which parent was the others-focused parent (the giver or co-dependent). If you find yourself feeling stuck with a true narcissist, you were likely raised with narcissism in some way. Some practitioners will boil …
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Why Do People Get Married? They want to be in a lasting relationship They meet and feel a connection They begin to plant-loving seeds via interest They begin to grow roots via the seeds of interest and begin trust, support, respect They begin to plant seeds in sex for safety invulnerability and another level of …
The narcissist likes no one. Everything they do is based around getting people who don’t really know them to like THEM! No one who truly knows a narcissist likes them, ever! The narcissist knows it. They don’t care. What matters to the narcissist is maintaining the delusion that they are addicted to of looking amazing …
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Have you been trying to determine if you are finding yourself in a romantic relationship with a narcissist? Don’t be fooled by everything you are reading online. Not all narcissists cheat and not in every relationship. If yours is not cheating, is does not mean he/she is not a narcissist. It simply means they are …
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